Are your shoulds and oughts based on Your own personal convictions and beliefs, or are you blindly following Someone Else's idea of the person they think you must be? If so, climb into the driver's seat. Yeah, get behind that wheel... Now follow your heart. Allow your soul to shine. Feels freeing, doesn't it? Yeah, that's what's been missing all along. Congratulations on reclaiming your life! ~k.h.